hubby and I really LOVE pirate culture. We got married in the carribean and our house has a pirate theme,

the ball is being thrown in honor of the new Pirates of Caribbean movie so it's gonna be badass (in other words, not a yearly thing),

We already have pirates costumes. I'm looking for any excuse to wear mine again.

I have known her less than a yr (she is good friends with my BFF and my sister). She's really sweet.

I will spend twice as much if I try to go to my friend's dinner, then go the pirate thing after.

I have a big mortgage so it's better that I spend less $$,

I don't really mind chilling with the girls, I love them and I always have a good time with them. It's just that I also looooooooooove pirate stuff. Advice please. ASAP. Thank